Living with the ones you love

Do you ever feel like you are being pulled in so many directions you just dont know which way to go anymore? Ever since moving to Alabama I have felt this way. I think I am beyond overwhlemed and I dont know what to do. I am trying to be a wife, mother, care-giver to three dogs, a sister, daughter,friend and "decorator" all at the same time. I just want to throw my hands up and say I GIVE UP! The sad thing is I cant do all 6 things at once the correct way. If I don't have someone and you know who you are griping at me because I haven't done something to the standards they would like them done or something is done right in the house like it SHOULD be done then I have kids wanting to help paint etc. ,but my nerves are shot so I raise my voice and then I am labeled as being a bad mom. I cant be a "good wife" since most of my time is consumed by all the other things.A woman's job is never done..... I am suppose to do all these things plus remember to shower and eat! Why cant I have a wife! I need a wife that can help me with all these chores! If I had someone that could be "me" then maybe I would have more time with JR and not yell at the kids and have time to paint everything in my house before the my household goods come and remember to call my friends so they know I miss them. Just know you guys I miss you so much it hurts and I will work on calling and emailing once I am settled in the house! Better go dig all the paint from today out from under my nails and set the alarm to do everything all over again the next day Lord willing :) Goodnight! It is very late so dont joke on my spelling or grammer! (you know who you are)